OFFERING SUPPORT

It can be tough to know how to help a friend, coworker, or loved one who is experiencing domestic violence.

Here are a few ideas:

• Express concerns

• Listen and validate experiences

• Accept them and where they are at in this relationship

• Work together on a safety plan

• Take time to better understand domestic violence

• Support their decisions, even if you disagree, and remind them of their power

• Talk to us! We can support those who support survivors

• Enroll in our Community Advocate Training

Remember: Victim-blaming is not okay. The abuser is the problem, not the person experiencing abuse.

Domestic violence is a complex issue and there is often a lack of easy answers. We can help, and here are some things you can say to someone affected by domestic violence:

• It’s not your fault

• I believe you

• I’m sorry you are experiencing this

• No one deserves to be abused

• I am concerned for your safety